| 1. Tell your truth. Let yourself and others know what your own
personal (not universal) truth is. 2. Realize that you choose. Eagerly accept responsibility for
everything that is happening in your life. Know that only you can make yourself
whole.
3. Seek deeper self-awareness. Read, discuss, meditate, involve
yourself in activity that aids you in becoming aware of your old programs.
4. Respond emotionally. Allow yourself to "feel" yourself.
And have your feelings rather than them having you or, your numbing them out.
Realize that all emotions are acceptable, but not all actions.
5. Give up blame and postpone judgment. No one is guilty. Rather seek
to understand what is happening and your part in it. Attempt to listen and
clarify one another's viewpoint before defending, teaching, or making them
wrong.
6. Seek not to consciously hurt others.
7. Take time to envision yourself as you want to be. Create motivation
from your future rather than being shoved through life by your past.
8. Consciously change your limiting beliefs. Don't wait for experience
to change it for you.
9. Assert yourself. Be aware of your boundaries and stand up for
yourself. Explore alternatives and give up being "right" or
"winning."
10. Be as sincere and as vulnerable as possible.
11. Be in touch with your body and its wisdom.
12. Seek a higher meaning/purpose in your life.
13. Treat your growth, unfolding, and inner life with respect, excitement,
and patience rather than judgment and fear. Realize that darkness (being in
the mouth) has much
to teach and you need reject nothing within your own being.
14. Give to give. Give yourself away daily to the purpose, people,
places, and things you love. Stop waiting for other to love first, make it safe,
accept you, agree with you, Start being who you want to be...today.
15. Laugh a little. Some things are much too important to be taken
seriously.
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